My Life Story
a story lead me through this journey ..
Tuesday, July 26, 2011
Missing you..
Friday, June 10, 2011
Lain-lain..
Saturday, June 04, 2011
Di Mana Penghujungnya
Adoiiiyaii... soalan cepu emas nih. Bukan orang ja menanya saya.I even asking myself oo when will i walking down the aisle ! (hermm perumpamaan ja k..maksudnya bila saya akan berkahwin)
Friday, June 03, 2011
I'll Do Everything I Want !
Ok. . here's the thing.
ESSENTIALS OF SIMPLIFYING
Learn to say no without guilt. The problem with always saying yes is twofold. It makes you feel overwhelmed, stressed and tired. And you end up doing things you don’t want to or shouldn’t be doing -- all the while acting, on the surface, as if everything is just fine.
Helpful: When the request is made, ask yourself, “All things considered, is it in my best interest to say yes, or is it okay to refuse?” Put in this perspective, there are probably many instances when it’s perfectly fine to say no.
Give yourself an extra 10 minutes. Instead of always rushing, start out 10 minutes early instead of waiting until the last possible moment. You will find yourself with plenty of time to spare and less stressed out in the process.
Create a “selfish” ritual. When you have what you need in an emotional sense, you have plenty left over for others. Rituals can be as simple as squeezing exercise into your daily routine, browsing bookstores or having a quiet cup of coffee before work. The point is, it’s your time -- a special part of the day reserved just for you.
Let yourself off the hook. We often try to do everything. We work hard, stay organized, try our best to be good parents, spouses, friends and concerned citizens. Sometimes it’s too much.
Remind yourself that it’s impossible to be all things to all people all the time.
Example: If you forget an appointment, don’t berate yourself for being stupid. Instead, view the mistake as a signal that you probably have too much on your plate.
Speak softly. When you speak too quickly and with a loud voice, the energy you send out into the world is frantic and nervous. People around you will feel pressured and slightly agitated. Speak more softly and you may discover that you begin to feel calmer and less stressed. Next, you’ll discover that everyone around you will quickly start to quiet down, too.
Embrace change. Truth is, everything is in a constant state of change -- our bodies, homes, children. We can fight and resist change or surrender and embrace it.
The problem with resistance is it’s a losing battle -- 100% of the time. When we try to resist the inevitable, we cause ourselves great pain and sorrow and miss out on a great deal of potential joy.
When we embrace change, we open the door to a far more peaceful existence. Then life becomes more of an adventure and each step seems more special and important.
Eliminate the “rat race” mentality. One of the problems of thinking about and discussing your job/life as being stuck in the rat race is that it sets you up to be frightened, impatient and annoyed. Decide to stop talking about your situation that way. Instead, recharacterize it in healthful ways.
Example: Instead of saying, “I spent my day in boring meetings listening to arguments and dealing with constant conflict,” try “The art of my work is bringing people together who, on the surface, don’t seem to get along very well. It’s a good thing I’m there to help.” Can you feel the difference?
Don’t dramatize deadlines. A lot of deadline stress comes not from the deadlines themselves, but instead from the energy wasted thinking about them, wondering whether we’ll meet them, feeling sorry for ourselves and, perhaps most of all, commiserating with others about them.
Working toward your goal without the interference of negative mental energy makes any job more manageable.
Create a bridge between your spirituality and your life’s work. This means taking the essence of who you are and what you believe into your work space. If kindness, patience, honesty and generosity are spiritual qualities that you believe in, make every effort to practice them at work.
Example: If it’s your job to reprimand someone, do so from a place of love and respect. Creating this spiritual bridge will remind you of a higher purpose and put your problems and concerns into a broader context.
Take breaks. Failure to take regular breaks not only wears you down, but also makes you less productive. While you may not feel it at the time, slowly but surely, frustration will sneak up on you. You’ll become less patient and less attentive.
Over time, you’ll burn out more quickly and your creativity and insights will slowly fade away. Breaks don’t have to be disruptive or last very long. Usually all we need is a few minutes every hour or so to clear our heads, stretch our arms -- and get some air.
It’s like pressing the reset button and providing ourselves with a fresh start. - Richard Carlson
Why must ... this?
I have made this blog since 2009 but i never knew how to manage it well. Until last Wednesday when my colleague Suriati comes up with this idea then show me her's.
Chit-chatting
This evening spent time with my good friend Zizie and Fandy . Mamam2 sampai kenyang..haha